The dreaded question: When did you go natural?

I mean…. Really? Why not…Were you always natural? 

I don’t know about you folks but I wasn’t born with a perm. Asking the question when did you go natural can be mildly insulting to the handful of folks who actually were always natural.

It’s always great to meet another “natural,” especially when they express interest in our hair. Then comes the dreaded question….”how long have you been natural?” …….blank stare….. I know this is a lot to take in and frankly can be a bit unbelievable….but not every “current natural” has had a perm. Believe it or not…..some of us have been rocking the same hair texture we were born with (except for the natural changes that occur with growth) all our lives. 
This question can be quite perturbing and insulting to some of the naturals out there who would rather not be classed with the natural hair movement. Next time we think to ask that question, let’s consider a less offensive way to phrase it…..”how about were you always natural?”

Have you been asked or asked something this question? Do you find it offensive?